better ways to view upsetting things

Life is good and bad but most people only see the bad. this is because the are either made to feel like they are a waste of air, like they should be dead, or even feel neglected or they  might have depression or another mental illness.

To some people life is not worth living because of all the bad that they see but that is only because they only focus on bad things in life and they don’t stop to smell the roses.

The people that only see the bad can be in danger because of the things they feel it is likely they will commit suicide or even a crime, so they need peoples support. and you could do your part for a friend just by being there and when they say negative things about them selves just tell them what you think of them and say that you are there to talk if they ever need you.

You will find that it is better to be optimistic then pessimistic.

Common things that people see as bad.

·         Breakups = ok this may be a cloud waiting to rain on all people at one time or another but don’t think of it as a life or death situation think of it as a new beginning another chance to be with the right person.

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             Death = okay this is a tuff one, it may be extremely sad for a huge period of time but this may be better for the person who has passed away. It would be better for them if they are in a lot of pain and or agene.

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             Bad luck= hmmmmmmm bad luck may seem bad at the time but there is always a new day coming. If you are having a bad day with lots of bad luck just remember there is always tomorrow and everyone has these days it is very common.

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            Missing person = okay this can be common but is not extremely likely to happen, it happens to 35% of people. If someone close to you becomes missing then there is no need to be worried you will always have support from family and friends.

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            Run a ways = when people you know and love run away what you need to do is try to get in contact with them but also give them some space they will come back soon and when they do come back or when you get in contact try to help them buy being there for them.

       

      Getting fired = okay when you get fired it may not always be at the best of times. but think of it as a new beginning another chance to accomplish you goals and dreams.

       Losing a friend = yes friends are people you have all through your life people you can trust and go to for help but, some times friends are fake. when you lose a friend/s it is okay to be sad but its not the end of the world. there are friends every where. they friend you had lost couldn't have been a really good one. so view it as another chance to get out into the world to meet new friends.

          well thats all for today hope its not too boring :)